HIV & AIDS Education: Parents You have a Role to Play

Soon after revealing my HIV status in January 2011 (diagnosed in 2004), I was inundated by the infected youth, and more so, those in fearing their parents finding out. Sadly, many never came out to their families as the distress of rejection and discrimination was real.

By Cindy Pivacic.


However, these days, we (mostly) have more awareness, information, and tolerance around HIV and AIDS. Even so, way too many of our youth are being infected daily.

SA Aids Conference Statistics

At the 11th SA Aids Conference on the 20th June 2023 in Durban amid the release of shocking HIV infections statistics showing around 1 300 young people in KwaZulu-Natal were infected weekly. (Note: This is ONLY KZN stats). 

SA Aids Conference Pregnancy Statistics

These numbers included not only HIV statistics but also pregnancies, which contributes to the HIV statistics: From April 2022 to December 2022, KZN recorded 26,515 pregnancies among girls aged 10 – 19 – 1,254 of them in the 10 – 14 age bracket (Again, ONLY KZN stats).

Parents play a crucial role in educating their children about HIV and AIDS.


Age-appropriate information: Parents should provide information about HIV and AIDS suitable for their child’s age and developmental stage. They can start with basic concepts and gradually provide more detailed information as the child grow.

Open communication: Create an environment where children feel comfortable discussing sensitive topics like sex, relationships, and health. Encourage open dialogue, answer their questions honestly, and address any misconceptions they may have.

Use accurate and up-to-date information: Parents should stay informed about the latest developments in HIV and AIDS research, prevention strategies, and treatment options. This knowledge enables them to provide accurate and reliable information to their children.

Promote safe behaviours: Teach children about the importance of practising safe sex, including the use of protection and the risks associated with high-risk behaviours. Empower them to make responsible choices and to respect their bodies and the bodies of others.

Challenging shame and discrimination: Educate children about the impact of shame and discrimination on people living with HIV and AIDS. Teach them empathy, compassion, and acceptance, emphasising the importance of treating all individuals with dignity and respect.

Media literacy: Help children develop critical thinking skills to analyse and evaluate the information they encounter about HIV and AIDS in media, including social media. Teach them to question sources, verify information, and identify misinformation or myths.

Promote inclusivity and diversity: Teach children that HIV and AIDS can affect anyone, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or socioeconomic status. Emphasise the importance of inclusivity and challenge stereotypes or prejudices related to HIV and AIDS.

Encourage regular testing: Discuss the importance of getting tested for HIV regularly, especially if engaging in sexual activity or if they have engaged in high-risk behaviours. Normalise the idea that testing is responsible and healthy behaviour.

Role modelling: Parents should lead by example and practice safe behaviours themselves. Children are more likely to adopt healthy habits and attitudes when their parents practice them.

Collaboration with schools and healthcare providers: Parents can work with schools and healthcare providers to ensure comprehensive HIV and AIDS education. They can advocate for inclusive and accurate curricula, workshops, and resources that support their efforts to educate their children effectively.

Ongoing conversations and support are crucial. Parents should be available to address their children’s concerns and questions as they arise and adapt their approach as their child matures.

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Disclaimer: The information in this article is intended for educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat or cure, and is not a substitute for professional consultation with a health professional.


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